Dogs are VERY smart!!! 2. a couple of weeks later i found out i was pregnant. when i was pregnant it was the opposite with me our older german shepherd who would never listen to me became suddenly attached to me and then it was my husband who stated she was acting diff. You can buy one at http://www.dogwise.com/. Find a family member, some one you trust that is willing to take care of your dog. 'Angry' Pence navigates fallout from rift with Trump, Dems draft new article of impeachment against Trump, Unusually high amount of cash floating around, 'Xena' actress slams co-star over conspiracy theory, Popovich goes off on 'deranged' Trump after riot, These are the rioters who stormed the nation's Capitol, Flight attendants: Pro-Trump mob was 'dangerous', Dr. Dre to pay $2M in temporary spousal support, Publisher cancels Hawley book over insurrection, Freshman GOP congressman flips, now condemns riots. Now he wants nothing to do with me. While I know it may seem that way, it is true that dogs are not capable of being spiteful. He won't look at me won't talk to me he just bluntly ignores me. Why don't you just let him find a new home while you are still pregnant and get him back once your baby is out. One reason why dogs always wants to go outside is because the outdoors is teeming with attractions. She found out weeks later, that she had a miscarriage. Then one day, he started growling at her and wouldn't go near her. Taking Your Dog to the Veterinarian Because They Aren’t Eating. Although necessary, the removal of the baby is exactly what the dog wants, so it reinforces her aggressive behavior. © 2021 Everyday Health, Inc, "My dog was my baby and got all my attention before I gave birth. I have to agree with you...I mean, you just cant put your baby at risk. I don't mean to scare you or offend anyone, this is just my experience. He never reached out and asked me how I was doing, it was always me telling him how the baby and I were. What does everyone else think? If she wants to, let your dog sniff the baby as you continue to speak softly to her. But you can tend to both at the same time through exercise, which is a great way to burn off steam for both two-legged and four-legged family members. What do you think of the name Noo Noo for a dog? How do you think about the answers? Rather than banishing Scooter to the doghouse, now’s the time to send him some clear signals about how you expect him to act — before the rivalry turns serious. Ever since I became pregnant, he's started changing and becoming spiteful and malicious. But for all the varied reasons, your dog could also just be throwing around alpha mutt tendencies to assert dominance. I don't know what to do I don't know how to talk to him to see what he's thinking I'm just in the dark. Even if your dog seems curious and calm, you may feel a little nervous about letting her get close to the infant. I dont think it is you he has a problem with...it is the new baby that he knows is there. More often than not, though, this behavior should not be deterred. My exes father rang me up out of the blue to say neither him or his family want anything todo with my little girl. We have another dog (a loyal mixed dog) who's been around a lot longer and a cat and neither of them have a problem with me. Try not to be mad at your mutt. What’s more unhealthy for dogs—Peanut butter or fish. Does it have nausea but no vomiting and only spits out a bit of saliva? I have an incredibly smart Border Collie that we've had for about a year now. The first thing to keep in mind is how you’re judging your dog’s appetite. The reason for … I have a 6 month old and ever since shortly after she was born my feelings for my dog have changed. i think he's just not seeing you as the alpha and sees your husband as one now. If you feel that your dog is just bored you may want to work in more walks, play time, or trips to the doggie park. Since dogs don’t communicate the same way we do with our young, this communication is more physical. If you’re concerned because your dog isn’t eating as much as the guidelines state on the food you purchase, remember that these are only averages. By Julie Moult for MailOnline Dogs learn a lot about their world through smell, so getting your pooch familiar with your baby’s scent (the sweet and the stinky) — and even giving him a treat as he sniffs calmly — may make him less likely to rummage through (and rip up) your baby’s gear. But trying to find time to shower your pup with love can be tough when you’ve barely got time to shower yourself. and when our son was born she wasn't aggressive with him but wanted nothing to do with him. It may simply mean that they are laying around because they honestly have nothing better to do ... they are just bored! He acts as if nothing has even happened. Dominance. Hire a trainer to try to work out the situation. Anyway he said he wants to see me again, he wants to hold me again and kiss me but as friends. Who's about a year and a half years old. Yes!!! Only the border collie. It’s not unusual for a calm, cuddly canine to act a bit beastly when a two-legged sibling takes over his turf. Praise her warmly for gentle investigation. If you’re sure nothing in your environment can be the cause of your dog’s lack of interest in food, your next step must be to call the vet and make an appointment as soon as possible to rule out any of the medical causes listed above. Dogs do tend to favor one person a little more (at least in my experiences) but he’s a puppy and is exploring and getting to know you both. You have a baby now so in a way you do have to challenge his behaviour. some people say they smell the hormones or even hear the heart beat which i kinda believe. Usually veterinarians can refer people to behaviorists if none are listed in your telephone directory. I was my husband‘s third wife I should’ve known better. Does the opposite of what I tell him to do. The only problem is that though many may love their pets, they may fail to understand the signs of communication of what message a dog wants to convey. I know it's not something you want to hear, but trust me, you don't want to put your baby endanger. It’s the dog equivalent of thumb-sucking in this sense. Assessing the Issue. Work off that energy. Now that we live together again our dog definitely loves us both and just like a child, knows how she can play each of us to get what she wants which is funny. Kanye West now wants ‘nothing to do with The Kardashians’ According to multiple sources, the rapper no longer regards Kardashian-West as the “fantasy woman” he spent decades swooning over. We weren’t “official” but if i had wanted a relationship at the time he would have been it. When a dog's frightened or scared, they might bite or pee or something. If your baby needs your full-on attention, give the dog a new chew toy to play with while you’re busy. The baby's dad wants nothing to do with me or his baby for that matter. I’d been messing with this guy for 10 yrs and got pregnant. Spell it out. He never reached out and asked me how I was doing, it was always me telling him how the baby and I were. 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